







Unfortunately it’s that time again. Our friends are moving. Time to say goodbye. This time it’s not only friends but neighbors, which just rubs it in your face even more. You have to see the moving truck. You have to physically SEE them leave. (On the upside, you also get a lot of random groceries, clothes, toys that they either can’t pack or realize that really don’t need anymore.) :)
This move was bittersweet because the Mom was my friend, and her son was Julianna and Mason’s friend. So we are all feeling a bit sad as we say goodbye. I have said it before and I’ll say it again… I think it is harder to be the one who gets left behind rather than the one who is leaving. When you are moving you are so stressed that you don’t have time to think about how sad it is, and on the other hand you are so excited about the new location, house, etc, that you don’t feel that sad. When you are the one who get’s left behind your every day life remains the same, but now there is something missing.
Military life is really something unique. The rate at which you make friends and then say goodbye to them and make more friends is so fast paced it’s kind of ridiculous. I am amazed at how quickly I can become consumed in a brand new friendship. How can a bond be formed so strong, so quickly? I have friends that I only lived in the same place for 1 year, yet I would do anything for those friends. I mean seriously, pretty much anything. Like, does anyone need a kidney? ;) There is a very unique bond that happens. You go through a lot together. You become each other’s sole support system. You are family.
This particular station has been harder than others. On the other hand I feel like I’ve had more support here than ever before. We are far away…. from EVERYONE. When your kid is sick you can’t call grandma to help out. Well you could, and I’m sure that if I ever made that frantic phone call that grandma WOULD come. Even so, it would take 24 hours for her to get here and a dump truck of money for a plane ticket. You have to have people around you can trust, depend on, even at 3am. I am so lucky to have that here. I’ve made phone calls at 3am. Guess what, someone showed up. I knew they would.
So, long story short. The vicious cycle continues. Hello, Goodbye, Hello, Goodbye. We just enjoy each other while we’re together and then thank God for Facebook. Sometimes this moving thing stinks… but I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t change things even if I could. It’s a good life, even when you have to say goodbye. You always hope your paths will cross again.




